Tuesday, June 27, 2006

Darryl Needs Your Help

When Darryl began leading a small group six months ago, it started with a bang! People came because they liked the curriculum...and the snacks! (Darryl's wife is an excellent cook!) Lately however...the "new" has worn off and Darryl is noticing that relationships within the group are still quite shallow. While members seem to be really getting into the studies, they don't seem to be connecting to one another on the deeper level Darryl hoped for. Beyond the study focus, they don't seem to understand "why" they are there. How can Darryl move the group beyond shallow acquaintance, to genuine, vibrant community? What advice would you give Darryl? Please post your response below.

1 Comments:

At 9:58 AM, Blogger CU said...

Home group only needs subtle leadership, not too active. People don't come for the study. They come to "connect". GET PERSONAL.
What challenges facing, what do we need prayer for. Idea: related to Christian love in action. Talk about Ten Caring Behaviors(you may uidentify more) and discuss how they've seen them used or could use at home, work etc. Attentive listening, comfort, honesty, helpful info, touch, sensitivity/empathy, support, encouragement. This could be used in all groups actually..

 

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